Math, Normaling and Sadness: Being Vanilla in a Kinky World
by: David Chastity For the past two years or so, I’ve been officially identifying as vanilla. Before that, I guess I was “experimenting,” or “curious.” When I did that thing […]
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On Celebrating Gay Advent, Hallowe’en and Sincerity
by: David Chastity and Eugene Cain David Chastity: David Chastity here with Thing Two this morning to talk about the best holiday ever, Gay Christmas. Not just ‘cause it’s our […]
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It’s a Unicorn, Not a Throuple
by: David Chastity Guys we need to talk. Specifically, about this really terrible word everyone has suddenly decided they love: “thruple.” (Or is it “throuple?” God, I don’t even want […]
Things That Make Lady Parts Feel Good: Masturbation Through the Ages
by: David Chastity My first memory is of masturbating. The first one that’s really mine, I mean. The one I know isn’t just a home movie or family photograph, but […]
Get in the Right Mindset: 5 Ways to Avoid Bad Sex
by: David Chastity Yes, Gentle Readers, it even happens to David Chastity. Bad sex. Sometimes you go to boink and everything goes wrong, and not in that cute “haha whoops […]
Let’s Get Some Shoes: On Being a Queer Feminist Femme Who Loves High Heels
by: David Chastity Sometimes Pandora makes terrible choices about what to advertise to me. Engagement rings, diapers, and luxury cars have all been known to show up on the breaks […]
Avoiding The Big Talk: Coming Out to People as Poly
by: David Chastity Like everyone else, I was so pleased to read Anderson Cooper’s coming out letter when Nico posted it on Facebook about an hour after it went live. I felt such empathy for the […]
Reclaiming Family Values: Proof That Poly Relationships Are Biblically-Based
by: David Chastity You know what I’m tired of? Conservative, heterosexual, monogamous Christians being the only ones who get to talk about family values. I’ve recently decided to reclaim the […]
The Little Mermaid Encouraged My Emotional Masochism, and I Love That
by: David Chastity A few weeks ago, a friend shared this with me on Google+. (Yes, I use Google+. You’re missing out.) It turns out, according to some historical research posted on […]
The Fall and Release of My Sexual Inhibitions: How Group Sex Has Enhanced My Life
by: David Chastity It’s no secret, I’m pretty slutty. But I used to be a lot sluttier. I want to tell you a story about the Fall my number of […]
