Fiction: Wise
By: Lisa Buscani She stands in the doorway, arching her back in the way that emulates every late-night TV black-and-white screen sex goddess she can remember. Common sense tells her […]
Tag Archives: sex
Feminine Sexuality Is Not Only What You Want, Dick: An Open Letter
by: Cassandra Warren Dedicated to Jennifer. An open letter to Men who treat feminine sexuality only as a reflection of what they want from it. Original reading at […]
Rectangles and Squares: My Hopes and Reservations for Interior Leather Bar
by: Patrick Gill It starts with the resonant sound of the slap, muted by only what can be assumed—leather, denim? The action, repeated and peppered with commands, with begs, occurs […]
Ask Jenn Vicious: To Stand Up For Yourself
by: Jenn Vicious Jenn Vicious is the radical community’s Agony Aunt, providing life coaching and social etiquette answers for radical cultures. Need poly. kinky, or queer dating advice, need to to know […]
Laughter Is Coercive: An Interview With Caitlin Bergh
by: In Our Words Staff/Patrick Gill It’s a strange, but lovely feeling when you find a person to be both energetic and eloquent. It’s both ebullient and grounding, making you feel so […]
Ask Jenn Vicious: Porn Watching Protocol
by: Jenn Vicious Jenn Vicious is the radical community’s Agony Aunt, providing life coaching and social etiquette answers for radical cultures. Need poly, kinky, or queer dating advice, need to to know […]
Coming Out Again: Reaching, Building, Educating, Doing.
by: Joe Varisco About a month ago I found out that I am HIV positive. Adaptation, embrace change. I found that in speaking this news I was liberated and empowered […]
Math, Normaling and Sadness: Being Vanilla in a Kinky World
by: David Chastity For the past two years or so, I’ve been officially identifying as vanilla. Before that, I guess I was “experimenting,” or “curious.” When I did that thing […]
Guess What: Rape’s Not Funny When the Victim is a Man, Either
by: Miriam Mogilevsky I know Jezebel is low-hanging fruit, but I can’t resist picking apart their new “Sexytime Dilemmas” column and its endorsement of sexual assault, which apparently is okay when […]
Why I’m Not (Yet) Out Of The Closet About S+M
by: Clarisse Thorn October 11 was National Coming Out Day. I cried when I saw Milk and I think outness can be an important political act, but I’m not coming out. Not yet. […]
